Miracle, in doing Family First it is absolute that anyone you have harmed must be apologised to, and I DO NOT MEAN THIS PAGE I mean the people in your life, your siblings, your son's exwife your grandson etc.... wounds are everywhere, sometimes you are outside of them, but at all times you were a player.My exdaughter in law sobbed in my arms last night saying sorry i hated you some much, behind her stood my grandson his eyes full of tears.
I said I am the first to acknowlede that at some stage when the true fighting, infighting, divorce happened, that we the all of us punished eachother.
It is now 16 years ago, my son has remarried..... my daughter in law has never got over her marriage...... her wounds are as present and powerful as when it happened.
I said I am dying my diabetes is excalating my arteries are not lettin the blood through easily and are narrowing....... I am alone in africa at this time....I AM HERE FOR YOU... not to trash my son, but to bounce woman to woman how to let go and move on.
She is a beautiful looking woman, her personality from out of an alcoholic home is twisted, her hate for men, all men is sad.
Is there a healing between her and I, no, but the offer is there to move into being two women with almost the same experiences.
All three of us held eachother in a group hug my nineteen year old grandson could not talk, just smiled........ that is what stuart means, become warm...love evolve Louij
